AN UPDATE: The (in)ked Writers Group has reached its maximum number of 50 members, so I am so sorry that we are unable to accept any more members. All of the (in)couragers groups are capped at 50 to ensure that the groups stay small enough to be manageable and conducive to conversation. However, the good news is that there are THREE additional writers’ groups offered, so please hop over to the Find a Friend page and check out the other great writers’ groups. Thanks!!
Last year I hosted a group of women at my house for an (in)Courage in-real-life event. Some of the women I knew well. Some of the women I’d never met before.
Truthfully, I was a little nervous about the whole thing, and part of me regretted getting myself all involved in it. In fact, I’d awakened the night before at 3:30 a.m. in a panic. Should I buy flavored creamer? Would I have to pray out loud? Would people notice how sprongy my couch is with the broken springs?
How would it work, I wondered, with such a disparate group of women – women who didn’t even know each other, who weren’t even in the same place in life? I worried about the fact that we were probably all at different spots on the spiritual spectrum. “What if it’s too Jesus-ey?” I worried. “What if it’s not Jesus-ey enough?”
In the end, it worked beautifully.
Sure, some of us had never met before. And it’s true, we were different, all of us at various life stages – married, single, divorced, empty nester, grandmother, young mother, working, stay-at-home, retired. And yeah, we were undoubtedly at various points on the spiritual spectrum, too. But despite all that, we laughed. We shared stories. We ate scones.
We connected. And it was a beautiful thing.
Fast-forward almost a year. I’m still connected with (in)RL, and this time I’m teaming up with my friend Kimberly Coyle to lead an online (in)Couragers Writing Group. It’s called (in)ked: A Community for Writers (Kimberly came up with the super clever name!), and we want YOU to be a part of this!
If you’re coming over from (in)courage to find out more about the Writers’ Group, let me tell you a little bit about myself. I’m mom to bug-loving boys Noah and Rowan and a pet lizard named Frill, and wife to Brad, an English professor who reads Moby Dick for fun. I live in Nebraska, where we moved 11 years ago, and where I discovered the Great Plains, grasshoppers the size of Cornish Hens…and God. I’d been an unbeliever for 20 years or so, and my return to God was as much a surprise to me as it was to everyone else in my life.
My faith and my writing have been connected from day one. Back in 2006 I inexplicably began to write my faith story – literally the first sentence I wrote would turn out to be the first sentence of a memoir that would take me more than two years to write. I didn’t know it at the time, but God used writing to bring me back to him, and I’ve been wrestling with my faith on the page ever since.
This writing journey hasn’t turned out exactly like I’d envisioned. In short, my hair turned grey, and I’ve thrown more tantrums and shed more tears than one might like in pursuing this dream called publishing. I’ve thought about quitting once or twice(okay, like 24 million times), suffered more rejections than I can count (including another writer’s rejection…but that’s a whole other story) and weathered every up and down you can imagine.
That’s why I LOVE the idea of this online writers’ community.
Writing can be a lonely endeavor. (in)ked is a community where we can connect: to celebrate each other’s successes, pray for each other’s opportunities, ask each other for advice and support one another when the inevitable rejections trickle in. We hope to create a place where we can talk craft and calling, and we want you to join in the conversation.
We want you regardless of where you are in this writing journey, whether you have three books with your name on the cover, or if you only refer to yourself as a writer in the quiet corners of your heart. Everyone is welcome, no matter which stage of the journey you’re at.
I met Kimberly last summer when we were roommates at the She Speaks Conference, and she is awesome. Not only is she a beautiful, eloquent and passionate writer, she is also super warm, hilarious and very real. Ten minutes after meeting her in person, I felt completely at ease – and this is saying A LOT, especially considering the fact that we were two perfect strangers hanging out in our pajamas within hours of meeting one another. I was rattled to the bone at She Speaks, and Kimberly cracked me up and helped me settle in and just be me, which was a huge gift.
So, what do you say? Will you join us to talk about writing and all its up and downs? I can’t promise Kimberly and I will have all the answers (or any, for that matter), but I can say with confidence that we’ll learn, we’ll connect in a meaningful way and we’ll eat virtual scones.
To learn more or sign up to join (in)ked, visit the (in)ked Facebook Group page. You can also find out about all sorts of other groups by visiting (in)courage.
If you want to sign up to join our writers’ group, please do so before March 1 – the groups are capped at 50 members. The (in)ked Writers Community runs from today (February 12) through April 26. We’ll mostly be hanging out at the private (in)ked Facebook page, so join there if you are interested.
*Note: I apologize to you men out there who are reading this and thinking it sounds good. (in)courage is a community for women, so (in)ked is open to women only.
Questions? Let me know in the comments or email me at michellederusha1@gmail.com.
Apologizing to the men. You’re so funny. 😉 I can’t wait to read what you and other women share here. Not that I’m a writer or consider myself one, but I love reading your perspective.
Hey Renee,
Just to let you know…I might not be posting about it that much here on my blog. (in)ked has a facegroup meeting place where we’ll be hanging out – I’d love for you to join us there (but I seem to remember that you are not on facebook – am I right about that?).
Oh and by the way, if you write, you are a writer – so that means YOU, Miss Renee, are a writer! Just thought you should know that… 😉
Hi Michelle,
I’m wanting to hang out in your group! I have more stuff on my heart than on a page, but would like to change that.
Virtual scones, yes, please! So happy we’re doing this together:)
Such a great idea. Hope I can join in!
This sounds like a little bit of heaven to me. I just went over and added my request.
I’m in…
What a wonderful way to encourage and be incouraged. I am glad I came by today from your email post reminder!
I have joined already and wrote a little about me. Looking forward to many opportunities.
Thanks for offering and opening up this community.
Have a wonderful day,
Sherry
I don’t think I’ve ever read your journey in a nutshell like that before. Makes me wish we all lived closer – I think there would be many conversations over scones. Thank you Michelle for opening your home and your heart in this way to community. It gives me chills.
LJ
Thanks so much for coming by today, Lisa-Jo. I have to say, this day has totally knocked my socks off – I was excited about the idea of the writers’ group, and now I am over the moon about the reality of it coming together so beautifully today.
What do you do if you are not on FaceBook? Interested, but don’t do FaceBook. Any other options?
m.
Ohhhhh, good question, Marg. So far we haven’t talked about any other options, and Facebook is an easy place for a group to gather, since we have 50 members. Have you checked out the other writer groups on (in)courage to see if they are meeting anywhere else but Facebook?
No, haven’t done that. BUT, I am now considering Facebook, just to see. By work kind of keeps me from Facebook. Everyone I know that is on it seems to have a second job just keeping up. So, I have avoided it like the plague. Keep up with a couple of friends via email, because I do like to write. It is so tempting.
Love you blog and read every entry.
m.
I avoided Facebook like the plague for a long time for the same reason – I said I would never, ever join (famous last words). But I do love it – it’s a great place to connect, and if you are somewhat disciplined, you can manage to keep it from taking over your life.
However, that said, the (in)ked writers’ group is full – we’ve been asked by (in)courage to cap the groups at 50 members to keep them manageable and conducive to conversation, so we can’t add any more new members. But I’d be delighted to connect with you personally via facebook or email, if you might be interested in that Marg. Thanks SO much for your kind words about my blog!
Looking forward to being a part of this little writing community. Thank you!
Yay, Trina – so glad to meet you today!
I just found your group today, and it is all filled up!!! I am so sad.
Oh Linda, I am so sad, too. It filled up way too fast — by mid-morning, in fact. I understand why (in)courage is having us cap the groups at 50 members (you should see my email in-box – my brain is melting), because it keeps it manageable, but I am sorry you will not get to join this one. My apologies, Linda. I do hope we can connect IN PERSON one of these days. Are you by chance going to Deidra’s Jumping Tandem Retreat? I want to hug you! If not then, maybe at the Laity Lodge writers retreat next fall?
There are still 2 writers’ groups open on the (in)courage site – have you checked out those? http://www.incourage.me/incouragers-writers
I understand Michelle. I was at Bible Study this morning – so I was just too late. I think I’m looking for some help and encouragement. I haven’t done anything with my book in months. Just a bit stuck.
I’m not going to the retreat. It isn’t in the budget 🙂 I know it will be wonderful. I had thought about a conference where I could learn the steps to take if I ever complete this book. I haven’t got a clue. Not one!
In the meantime, I’m praying for your writing and all the others in the process of writing books. It’s an amazing time.
Love to you sweet friend.