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Michelle DeRusha

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It’s Time to Look at the Bigger Picture

August 20, 2015 By Michelle

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Believe it or not, I’m going to talk about elephants again. Who would have thought that one hour-long program about elephants would result in two blog posts that really aren’t about elephants.

Katy Payne, the acoustic biologist interviewed by On Being host Krista Tippett, talked about the problem of poaching in Africa. Tens of thousands of elephants are killed every year for their prized tusks, which are extremely valuable in black market ivory trading. But she also pointed out something I didn’t know: sometimes these poachers are the native Africans themselves who are driven by extreme poverty to poach.

“Clearly poaching is something you are against,” observed Tippett, speaking to Payne, “and yet you’re always realizing that it’s often a correlate of poverty or of local uprisings, and so it’s not so simple to divide the world into good guys and bad guys.”

These observations about the bigger issue behind the problem of poaching got me thinking about how easy it is to divide the world into good guys and bad guys, especially when we don’t consider the bigger picture.

Think, for instance, about the looting that sometimes follows a highly charged racial incident, like when Mike Brown was killed in Ferguson, Missouri, last summer. I admit, I struggled to understand why some African Americans and others seemed to retaliate against the local business owners — many of whom were people of color themselves. But to blame the problem on “thugs,” a term casually tossed around by many of us when situations like these occur, is, I think, to miss the much bigger picture.

Columbia University psychology professor Tory Higgins says that incidents such as the Ferguson riots typically occur when people feel ineffective and unvalued. “There is a long period prior to the riot of feeling that you’re not in control of your own life. It may either be financial, like unemployment or a low-paying job, or political,” says Higgins. “They basically don’t feel respected or that they’re making a difference.”

Black people in America have experienced this lack of control, this sense of unimportance and ineffectiveness and less-than-ness for centuries. People of color have not benefitted from the same socioeconomic, educational and employment opportunities enjoyed by white people. And if you are a black person living in 21st-century America, you have experienced overt racism, period. No person of color escapes the impact of racism unscathed, including our President of the United States.

“There’s no black male my age, who’s a professional, who hasn’t come out of a restaurant and is waiting for their car and somebody didn’t hand them their car keys,” said President Obama in a 2014 People magazine interview, adding that, yes, it’s happened to him in the past.

This is an example of a subtler form of racism, but overt bias and hatred are obviously pervasive in America as well. And the fact is, when you suffer from both the subtle and overt forms of racism day in and day out, year after year after year, it takes a toll. Resentment builds. Anger simmers. And then it erupts.

You might assume all this has absolutely nothing to do with faith or religion, but I disagree. Jesus, it seems to me, was a big-picture kind of Messiah. Sure, he was concerned about the specific sins of individuals. “Go and sin no more,” he told the woman accused of adultery. But he was even more concerned about the bigger picture, the pervasive, overarching problems of sin that affect society as a whole.

Jesus urged the Pharisees in particular – those who saw themselves above and removed from the problems of society – to pull back from zeroing in on the sins of one particular woman and instead to broaden their lens to consider and acknowledge how their own sins might be part of the larger problem, too: “Let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone.”

Jesus’ point: none of us is innocent. We are all part of the bigger problem. We all sin. We can’t point a finger at someone else unless we take a hard look at ourselves first.

Yes, looting and rioting, like poaching, is terrible and criminal. But just like Katy Payne is able to see how the larger problems of poverty and injustice are connected to the crime of poaching in Africa, we need to understand how the history of institutionalized racism is playing out right here, right now in 21st-century America.

It’s time to look at the bigger picture. It’s time to stop blaming and pointing our fingers, yammering about “thugs” and “those people” and “them.” It’s time to broaden our lenses, lay down our stones and own that we all play a role in the problems perpetuated by racism.

Filed Under: racism Tagged With: racism

Why It’s Time to Step Across the Divide {and how I recently failed to do that myself}

July 28, 2015 By Michelle

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A couple of months ago I attended a fundraising luncheon here in town. My friend Jess and I found three open spots at a table in the middle of the packed room (we saved a seat for our friend, Meg, who was arriving late), and as we sat down, I said hello to our tablemates. The three young women, all of whom were wearing hijab, the head covering typically worn by traditional Muslim women, politely returned my greeting. I then turned my attention to the menu and to my friend, and the three women resumed their conversation.

A few minutes later Meg arrived, and after Jess and I had chatted with her for a bit, I noticed that she then turned to the three Muslim women on her left. She greeted them, introduced herself, and engaged them in conversation. She learned their names. She asked what they did for a living and where they worked. The four of them chatted about Meg’s earrings.

It was a simple conversation, pretty basic as far as conversations go. But it was a conversation.

Two months later I’m still thinking about the marked difference between how Meg and I interacted with the three Muslim women and why that difference is important.

I had been polite, but guarded; Meg was warm and engaged.

I’d kept my distance; Meg made a genuine effort to connect.

After a cursory greeting, I had retreated to my comfortable, familiar place and talked with the person in my own circle; Meg stepped out to connect with three strangers, three people different from her and outside of her immediate comfort zone.

In short, I was content to let the three women remain “the other” – separate, distant, different. Meg made an effort to get to know the three women as real people.

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We are living in a time of great racial unrest in America, and often, I find it’s easy for me to assume that these issues have nothing to do with me. I tell myself the rampant racial problems we are experiencing right now originate with and are perpetuated by “bad people,” racists, people other than me. I tell myself I’m not responsible for these problems, and therefore do not have a critical role in helping to remedy them. But in that I am wrong. I am responsible. I do have a role.

Chances are, we have more in common with those we deem different than we might assume, but in order to discover and embrace those commonalities, we first have to recognize and acknowledge where and how we define people as “other,” and then take a conscious step toward bridging that gap.

That’s exactly what Jesus did. He wasn’t content to stay within his inner circle and associate only with his disciples and the religious elite. Instead, Jesus consistently reached out to those on the margins, the “others” of his time – the tax collector, the prostitute, the leper, the spiritually lost – and invited them into conversation and connection.

Jesus made an effort to know the person behind the label, to narrow the gap between “other” and “Someone.”

That afternoon at the fundraising luncheon I defined those three Muslim women as “other” and chose, because it was easier and more comfortable, to stay with that. My friend Meg made the opposite decision. In spite of her discomfort, she stepped across the divide, and in doing so, demonstrated that trying to get to know someone as a real person, even when it feels a little awkward or forced, is better than not trying at all.

This post originally ran on July 25, 2015 in the Lincoln Journal Star. 

Filed Under: race, the "other" Tagged With: Muslims, racism, the other

I’m a Nice White Person; What Does Charleston Have to Do with Me?

June 22, 2015 By Michelle

 

I had no intention of writing this post, though in the days following the Charleston shooting, I thought a lot about what I would say here, were I to write a post about racism. But honestly, after this post back in April, I vowed to take a good, long hiatus from controversial issues here on the blog. As the be-all and end-all of controversial issues, I had no intention of writing about race in this space.

But then Harry changed my mind. Harry is the minister at First Baptist Church here in Lincoln. On Sunday my husband, the boys and I attended worship at First Baptist, and even though Harry didn’t give the sermon, he offered some brief thoughts about Charleston that changed everything for me.

In the face of such a horrifying tragedy, it’s easy to fall into hopelessness, Harry acknowledged. He urged us to resist that temptation, and instead, to use our unique, God-given gifts to do our one small part to beat back evil and further God’s kingdom here on earth.

So this is my one small part: the post I didn’t want to write. Here are some thoughts about racism and my role in it as a “nice, white person.”

 

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Remember the story of Jesus’ conversation with the rich man in the Gospel of Mark? After the man turned away from Jesus, unable to relinquish his possessions, Jesus proclaimed to the disciples, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the Kingdom of God!” In fact, Jesus added, “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God!” (Mark 10:25).

The very first time I read that story, I thought to myself, “Whew! At least I’m not rich!”

It took a while for me to realize the truth, to see myself in Jesus’ statement. The fact is, I am rich. I am richer, far richer, than the majority of people on the face of this earth. When Jesus talks about the rich, is indeed talking about me.

That story about the rich man and my response to it illustrates how I’ve thought about racism and my role in it for most of my life.

When something like the Charleston massacre or the death of Eric Garner or Trayvon Martin happens, my reaction has typically been one of sadness, empathy and compassion mixed with a feeling of exemption. When black commentators and bloggers and tweeters write about their frustration, anger and grief over these events, part of me feels exempt from the conversation and maybe even a little bit self-righteous.

“At least I’m not a racist,” I reassure myself.

When my black peers talk about the problem of rampant racism in America, I’m confident their comments don’t pertain to me. The problem of racism in America, I assure myself, has nothing to do with me, because even though I’m white, I’m nice. I’m not racist. That’s pretty much what I tell myself. And with that, I let myself off the hook.

Friends, I am wrong. This problem of racism in America has every bit as much to do with me.

A few days ago I was running my regular route, and I passed a young black man cycling in the opposite direction. I shouted out a greeting and smiled at him as he rode by. I made an effort to be friendly and kind, even though I was at death’s door, running in the stifling Nebraska heat.

This is an example of bias based on skin color.

A day later, I took my kids to the local fitness center to swim in the outdoor pool. While we were there, an elementary-age black girl (the only black person at the entire pool, I should add) approached the boys and asked if she could play with them. I was relieved when they said yes, and the whole time they splashed together in the pool, I was on guard. I didn’t read my book; I didn’t scan Instagram. I watched my boys to make sure they played fair with the black girl.

This is an example of bias based on skin color.

You might argue that in both cases I was just being kind. And that’s true, I was being kind. But the deeper, harder truth is that in both cases, I went out of my way to be kind just because the people with whom I was interacting were black. I treated them differently than I would have if they’d been white.

If I’d passed a young white man on a bike when I was running toward death’s door on a blisteringly hot Nebraska day, you can bet I wouldn’t have taken the extra energy and breath to smile and shout out a chipper greeting.

If my kids played with a young white boy at the pool, you can bet I’d have my nose in my book, grateful for the respite, instead of watching them like a hawk to be sure they included him in their games.

I treated the young black man on the bike and the little black girl at the pool differently because of the color of their skin. You may argue that that doesn’t count. You may think that because it’s bias leaning in a positive direction that it’s not bad bias. But I don’t know. Bias is bias. My interactions with the black cyclist and the black girl at the pool were based on skin color, friends. And I have to ask myself: how many steps is it from what I’m calling “positive bias” here, for lack of a better term, to negative bias? How many steps is it from that to full-on racism?

In Blindspot: Hidden Biases of Good People, psychologists Mahzarin R. Banaji and Anthony G. Greenwald explore the hidden biases we carry from a lifetime of exposure to cultural attitudes about age, gender, race, ethnicity, religion, social class, sexuality, disability status and nationality. I haven’t read the book, but when I came across a mention of the test developed by the authors, the Implicit Association Test (IAT) (it’s available online here), I was intrigued.

There are several versions of the IAT (age, weight, skin tone, sexuality, disability, race, etc.). I took the race test twice, and both times the results revealed that I have a “strong automatic preference for European Americans over African Americans.”

I was surprised and disturbed. Because I’m not a racist, right? Because I don’t judge people based on the color of their skin, right?

Wrong. I do, in fact, judge people based on the color of their skin. It doesn’t necessarily look ugly and terrible; sometimes my judgments are cloaked in “good intentions” – like my attitude toward the young man on the bike and the little girl at the pool. But more often, and in some ways even more disturbing, these snap judgments happen automatically, subconsciously, without my being aware of them.

I have a strong automatic preference for white people over black people. This is racism, friends. It’s ingrained in me.

I admit, I don’t quite know what to do about all this. How do you change a way of thinking that has been woven into your subconscious for almost 45 years? Is it even possible to change the way you think when it comes to these kinds of automatic, hidden biases?

I don’t know. What I do know, though, is that I can take some small steps to broaden my world and the world of my children.

My neighborhood is white. My church is white. My kids’ schools are white. My friends are white. People, I have one black friend. One. And she is the first black friend I’ve had in all of my 44+ years.

But.

I can change this. This is within my power to change. This does not need to be my status quo. Continuing to live my homogeneous life is a choice I make; it’s also something I can change. I can take small steps to broaden my world and the world of my children. I can take small steps to get to know, really know, people who look different than me.

This doesn’t mean I have to abandon my church. But I can visit a more diverse church from time to time and get to know some of the people there.

This doesn’t mean I need to find all new friends and all new activities and sell my house and move into a new neighborhood. But I can attend events and frequent places in town that attract a more diverse audience, and I can step out of my comfort zone and initiate conversation with someone who doesn’t look like me and who doesn’t come from the same background I do.

I can educate myself by reading books like The New Jim Crow and Brown Girl Dreaming and watching movies like Selma and then discuss them with the people in my circles.

I can talk to my kids openly and honestly about Charleston and Eric Garner and pool parties gone wrong in Texas and the Implicit Association Test.

I can write about racism and where I see it in myself, even when that makes me nervous and uncomfortable and afraid of controversy.

True, some of these steps might feel a little awkward, a little forced, a little contrived. And they certainly seem small and inconsequential in the face of more than 200 years of institutionalized racism.

But like Harry said on Sunday, I may not be able to change the whole problem, but I can do my one small part to help beat back evil and further God’s kingdom here on earth. I can start with myself. I can work to understand and shift the biases that are ingrained in my own mind. And I can help to shift the paths toward bias that are being formed in the minds of my children as well.

Filed Under: race Tagged With: racism, South Carolina shooting

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